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1 *Meeting for Sufferings Appeal Review Group final report*
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3 QF&P provides for an process of appeal to MfS with respect to
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4 decisions of an Area Meeting and disputes between Area Meeting.
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5 Experience with this process has been less than wholly positive, and
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6 MfS commissioned a review. The Review Group reported with
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7 recommendations for a narrowed and simplified process, including a
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8 preference for a "conflict transformation" approach (as opposed to
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9 "conflict resolution") and an explicit place for mediation before
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10 things get to Sufferings.
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12 We approved these recommendations, and specific changes to QF&P will
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13 be forthcoming.
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15 We called Area Meetings' attention to the recommendation in QF&P that
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16 they should have a "conciliation group".
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18 There as some questioning of the value of the phrases "conflict
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19 resolution" _or_ "conflict transformation" _or_ any other language
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20 which raises expectations of success which cannot be met or fear of
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21 coercion.
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23 In this context Friends are reminded that Quaker Life can provide help
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24 and guidance to Meetings which are taken by surprise/taken aback by
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25 apparently irresolvable internal conflict, and that asking for help
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26 _early_ is essential to avoid exacerbating aspects of a situation
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27 through ignorance.
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29 The Review Group also suggested that beyond the narrow matter of an
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30 appeals procedure, the larger question of how we deal with conflict as
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31 a Society, as Meetings and as individuals needs to be considered.
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33 In this context we were reminded that difficulties around Membership
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34 often arise from "lack of familiarity with Quaker ... processes" and
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35 that accordingly care for a Ministry of Teaching in our meetings is
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36 necessary to help promote this familiarity.
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38 *Report of BYM Sustainability Group Review Group*
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40 The Review Group reminded us of the Canterbury Commitment:
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42 http://www.quaker.org.uk/documents/minute-36-leaflet-2011
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44 The Sustainability Group was established by Sufferings to lead/guide
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45 BYM in taking the Commitment forward.
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46
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47 The situation is complex, the SG has achieved much, but also struggled
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48 much. The RG recommended laying the SG down, probably soon after the
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49 next Sustainability Gathering, in favour of mandating coordination
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50 between the different areas at the Central level which can and do
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51 support sustainability. Concern was expressed by myself and others
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52 that giving responsibility for overseeing this coordination to
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53 Sufferings without any detail on how this to be carried out leaves a
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54 very significant gap and risks simply recreating the SG under another
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55 name. Actually deciding to lay the SG down without a clear picture of
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56 what's going to take it place seems premature.
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58 The need for a clearer articulation of the largely unspoken spiritual
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59 basis for the Commitment was raised.
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61 The oft-remarked tension resurfaced between a feeling on the part of
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62 many that we ought to put sustainability at the centre of our efforts
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63 and a recognition that many others who don't seem to be interested in
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64 doing so.
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66 Some quotes from the floor:
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68 "It's not surprising that we struggle, and blame each other, and get
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69 stuck." (Laurie Michaelis)
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71 "This is the biggest thing we've ever tried to deal with."
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73 "Giving responsibility but no authority to working groups [such as
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74 SG] is Kafkaesque, not Quakerly"
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76 "How do we connect a BYM Concern with [the priorities and funding
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77 choices] of the centrally-managed work]." (Lis Burch)
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79 "What is it that has caused us to try to do this and fail 5 times?"
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81 [Testimonies C'tee to Sufferings in 2007?]
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