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date | Sat, 07 Apr 2018 06:26:50 -0400 |
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*Meeting for Sufferings Appeal Review Group final report* QF&P provides for an process of appeal to MfS with respect to decisions of an Area Meeting and disputes between Area Meeting. Experience with this process has been less than wholly positive, and MfS commissioned a review. The review group reported with recommendations for a narrowed and simplified process, including a preference for a "conflict transformation" approach (as opposed to "conflict resolution") and an explicit place for mediation before things get to Sufferings. MfS approved these recommendations, and specific changes to QF&P will be forthcoming. There as some questioning of the value of the phrases "conflict resolution" _or_ "conflict transformation" _or_ any other language which raises expectations of success which cannot be met or fear of coercion. In this context Friends are reminded that Quaker Life can provide help and guidance to Meetings which are taken by surprise/taken aback by apparently irresolvable internal conflict, and that asking for help _early_ is essential to avoid exacerbating aspects of a situation through ignorance. The review group also suggested that beyond the narrow matter of an appeals procedure, the larger question of how we deal with conflict as a Society, as Meetings and as individuals needs to be considered. In this context we were reminded that difficulties around Membership often arise from "lack of familiarity with Quaker ... processes" and that accordingly care for a Ministry of Teaching in our meetings is necessary to help promote this familiarity.