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6 <title>Diana Horne: Report on a meeting</title>
7 <author>Henry S. Thompson</author>
8 <author>Mary Woodward</author>
9 <date> 4 Sep 2010</date>
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13 <title>Diana Horne: Report on a meeting in conjunction with her application
14 for membership</title>
15 <p>At the request of SE Scotland Area Meeting, Diana, Henry and Mary met over supper at Mary's flat on 1 September 2010.
16 After a pleasant supper and some quiet worship, we moved into a conversation
17 about Diana's experience with Friends and her desire to become a member.</p>
18 <p>An Anglican by birth (although her father would subsequently spend some
19 time calling himself a Quaker), church has always had a place in Diana's life,
20 but as an adult she spent many years looking for one in which she could feel
21 comfortable. She had been aware of Quakers as a result of their public
22 witness, but had never met one until coming to a show at Venue 40 in 1995, and
23 she has been a regular attender since 1997.</p>
24 <p>She found Quakers and Quaker worship a welcome change from other churches
25 in the way that she felt that she remained in control, and the way in which
26 Faith and Practice, particularly Advices and Queries, offered clear and helpful
27 guidance, without the obscurity and negative emphases she had found in other
28 churches' use of the Bible.</p>
29 <p>Recently she has been involved with Jasmine Perinpanayagam's testimonies
30 study group, where she helped organise the recent meeting with representatives
31 of the Army. This experience gave her a strong sense of the value of the Peace
32 Testimony, seeing its common sense and emphasis on equal rights, its lack of
33 sectarianism, as pointing towards a better way of living for us all in a really
34 usable way. The Hungarian Uprising of 1956 had made a very strong impact on
35 her as a child, so finding this kind of helpful response to the violence in the
36 world has been particularly important to her.</p>
37 <p>She would probably have moved towards membership sooner, but the demands
38 of caring for her brother Stuart, and a feeling that she didn't want to join
39 without him doing so also, intervened until recently.</p>
40 <p>Another aspect of Friends that is important to her is our
41 egalitarian stance on Gay and Lesbian rights. She experiences Meeting for
42 Worship as a valuable shared quiet time, a time to think and benefit from both
43 the silence and the spoken ministry of the group. She has not yet ministered
44 herself, but is comfortable with the expectation that she will do so when the
45 time is right.</p>
46 <p>She is comfortable with the Christian origins of the Society, without
47 being uncritical of some aspects of the established Church, in particular its
48 emphasis on sin and unworthiness. She very much values being part of a more
49 open, like-minded, group. Quaker guidance towards a good and useful life
50 represents a much more positive kind of Christianity for her.</p>
51 <p>She has a lot of experience in various forms of group work from earlier
52 jobs, and hopes to find ways of bringing that into service to the Meeting. We
53 agreed that she already feels and demonstrates a key aspect of membership,
54 which is taking responsibility for the Meeting in a practical way, taking a
55 share in the running of the place. One way in which she hopes to see the
56 Meeting grow is in providing more opportunities to talk with Friends about our
57 insights, experience and concerns, building on the experience of Hearts and
58 Minds and similar organised study groups.</p>
59 <p>In conclusion, it is clear to us that Diana is already a Member in all
60 but name, and we hope Area Meeting can ratify this.</p>
61 <p>[Not true yet, but hope it will be]: Diana has read this report and is happy for it to go forward to Area Meeting.</p>
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