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3 I had missed the 'rule' part!
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4 Wrt what would I be willing to be held to account?
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5 What kind of intentional community might be situated within a Quaker
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6 meeting?
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8 Alex Wildwood:
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9 Connection: participation/communion/community
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10 Reflection/meditation/contemplation: Stilling the monkey mind;
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11 self-enquiry: what are we led to do
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12 Service: Action of love [12 step]; work, creativity and caring;
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13 aliveness is relational
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14 Serving the great works of justice, peace and love
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16 Aka connection/consciousness/compassion
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18 Power and presence that is greater than us
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20 Ego, seeking self-validation. "I don't like change"
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24 Ben PD:
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26 "A succession of very unhappy people, nothing to do with me" !
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27 ??? hedonism.
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29 Faithfulness: What does it feel like to be faithful, how do I know
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30 what is an authentic spiritual impetus?
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32 Keep practicing a life as ministry; Remember the principle of Act as If.
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34 Look for a feeling, and look at the fruits.
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36 Holy moments, right place/right time, a _thin_ place
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38 Good questions to ask about authentic decision making
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40 Amish decision: does this build community?
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42 Ever vigilant, and recognise the need for help.
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44 *Day 1*
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47 Be prepared to wait. Sometimes one has to just get out of the way.
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49 G. MacLeod: "I don't believe in coincidences, but when I stop praying
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50 they stop happening".
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52 "Fold the wings of the intellect"
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54 "God is reached by love, not navigation" Augustine
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58 But sometimes pain is just painful...
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60 "There is a power and presence by which we live" _The_ Quaker
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61 testimony, per Jocelyn Burnell, allegedly
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63 curl -o ewa ftpes://hsthompson:eebaephai4Ae@resources.elda.org/
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65 -------------Rules----------
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67 What is the aim of the spiritual life: to realise the full potential
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68 of my humanity.
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70 Noticing how we sabotage our best intentions
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72 *Day 2*
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74 ----------Rule for me-------
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76 Substantive, realistic, ministry
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78 [use positive language]
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80 How without a community?
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82 If I'm not keeping a rule maybe _it_ needs to change
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84 Don't set oneself up to fail "I have not gone after things to great,
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85 or marvels beyond me".
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87 QF&P/A&Q as a rule: how to make it more personal [substantive,
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88 realistic, ministry]
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90 What's already underway w/o problems may not need to be in there...
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92 Be careful about inviting ways to work around bits
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94 Use the stairs as a physical cue, morning and evening, to set the
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95 day's goals; to acknowledge the goods/fallings short.
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97 Thich Nhat Hanh puts value on 'solidity': that resonates, but what
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98 _is_ it?
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100 St. Francis: "[E]liminate the ways we may manipulate others to ur own
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101 ends."
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103 I'm going to write this without assuming that I'm ready to adopt it,
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104 call it...
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106 [See A_Guide_for_Living.{txt,xml}]
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108 1861 end of plain dress in the UK
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110 ref. Friendly Persuasion
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112 Having a private life is new, in Quaker life: Elders no longer
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113 come to people's homes to inspect their conformance to Quaker
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114 principles.
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116 So where do we find a mechanism for helping us hold to a rule?
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117 Ask for help: AW got a group of "seasoned Friends" to help him manage
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118 the calls on his time.
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120 In a Clearness Meeting, ask for clarification questions before the
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121 worship starts.
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123 Wrt the salmon Rule, _Gilletts_ is the residential self-catering part
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124 of Charney Manor.
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126 Spiritual Director - prayereleven.org - Bob Harwood?
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128 THe Master and [his/the] Emissary
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130 Psalm 119/Ian McGilchrist
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132 Tim Peat Ashworth Reimagining the Bible
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134 Follow up with Linda Garrett [gardens person]
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